How to Forgive and Let Go of the Past!
November 22, 2008
Next to love, forgiveness is the most misunderstood concept. Forgiveness has been twisted by a lack of awareness as to how it functions. To forgive does not mean we must rejoin with our ex-lovers, free criminals from prisons, return to old jobs or anything else absurd. We are taught to believe that if we are to forgive the one who hurt us, it must manifest in some form of behavior. Forgiveness is often seen as weakness.
Forgiveness is a function of love that seeks to understand the negative impact of another person and then to release the pain and find inner peace. When you choose to forgive somebody this does not mean that you acknowledge they’re cruel behavior as acceptable, for doing this would be dishonest. Above all, it does not mean that we assume a superior (holier than thou) attitude to pardon the sins others.
Great Tips to Get Your Ex Back Again
November 22, 2008
Getting your ex back could be a long haul! But you will have to ask yourself ONE question first. Do you REALLY Want your Ex Back ??
You will have to sit down and ask yourself some pretty tough questions and you are going to need pen and paper! Now that you have had time to think about the good things and the bad things in the relationship, you are becoming more objective in your outlook. You have got rid of all those irrational and emotional thoughts about how you will die ( not live !) without your ex. Enough time has passed to let you think more clearly and rationally.
Was the decision to break up done in a moment of anger ? Very often, things come to a head over just ONE issue and that does not take into account the whole relationship.Sometimes though this is the last straw that broke the camel’s back, So,you have to look at it overall and think of it as an experience which spans a lot of time and incidents (not to mention accidents !).
Holiday Parties And Small Talk
November 22, 2008
With the Christmas season fast approaching, millions of us will soon be attending holiday parties including the company Christmas party. If we’re the employee, chances are we’ll know plenty of people to talk to, but if you’re the spouse or partner of the employee, you may know only one or two people. Unless you’re comfortable spending time alone at your table, you’ll need to get out there and mingle with strangers. If small talk is not something that comes easily to you, read on;
Make a plan
Pheromones, Relationships, And Sexuality
November 21, 2008
Most of us have described a new beginning to a relationship using such terminology as ‘the chemistry is great’. But is there any validity to such a statement; in reality, does chemistry have anything to do with our attraction to or interactions with others. To put it quite simply, yes it does, by way of pheromones.
Now you may be wondering what pheromones are. I think an easy way of explaining this is to use animals such as dogs as examples. Although this example is extreme it will help to make the point. We all understand that female dogs come into season, or ‘heat’ as it is commonly referred to. During such a time male dogs in nearby locations will smell the female dog and be affected by that.